Singaporeans Not Contributing Enough
In Certain Ways
In certain ways, Singaporeans are pathetic. Look at our society here! We are one of the ones listed among the top of being as the most highly stressed up nations of the world. Financial survival & living condition expenses is too costly & expensive here. We are all too busy surviving financially everyday to have time for any other things else. As a result of such we are also among the top for being a very lifeless country. A very realistic way of describing us Singaporeans is that we are all personal slaves to the government & dogs to the company we are all working for.
We have no life here. Not much of a night life as well. We don’t have time for life, no mood & energy for life as well. There is no such thing as retirement basically to say. All of us are to work till the very day we die! Only then will we finally retire for good! That is how the environment & society as well as life in Singapore are like, basically to say.
Racial Ratio
Talking about ratios here, at the present, the highest according to their order with regards to racial population would be:
1) Chinese
2) Malays ( but their population is catching up with the chinese)
3) Indians
4) Eurasians
5) Mix blood & other minority races
Gender Ratio
When talking about gender ratio, basically to say out of every 10 person here in Singapore 7 are females & 3 are males. (Singapore is in high shortage of male population & men are in demand in this point of aspects)
When talking about the ratio between the Young & old, well, actually the population of the young ones are not sufficient here. As time to come the ratio of the old will be a lot more than the young ones. (That is why our Government is trying to increase it with foreigners here. From the way I judge it, as time to come or it might already be of the case now even perhaps, that foreigner population will be more than locals.)
Foreigner Vs Local in work force
When talking about the work force ratio it is in actual real fact as follows:
1) MNC (Multi-National Companies or so call big corporations / International companies) has at least 70% foreigners if not even more working in the company & the remaining are locals & PR(s).
2) SME (Small – Medium Enterprise or so call small companies & family business companies / local small companies) have at least 60% foreigners working in the company if not more than that & then the remaining will be locals /PR(s).
3) Semi – Government ( Half Government Half Private) & Government Sectors although they say it is purely only Singaporeans & PR(s) that will be employed, but however the percentage of PR(s) is very high & don’t forget that PR(s) are still not Singaporeans. They still hold a foreign passport it is just that they can stay here permanently as long as they like that is why they are called as PR(s), Permanent Residents.
Foreigners are very cheap to employ. The Salary of one Singaporean is equal to the salary of 3 China People or 2 Malaysians. It means for every salary of one Singaporean you can employ either 3 China People or 2 Malaysians.
Statistic in Marriage & Reproduction
Finally coming to Marriage & Reproduction! It is simply more than too common of the following:
1) Singapore man strongly prefer to marry foreign wife over local girls
2) Singapore woman highly prefer foreign man as husband over local man
3) Most Singapore man get married somewhere around age of 28-30
4) Most Singapore Girls get married somewhere around age of 26-28
5) Most couples marry at late age & have children at much later age
6) Many girls are too career minded & don’t want to get married at all
7) Most people would stop at their 1st child & don’t want to reproduce anymore
Some even don’t want to have children after marriage
9) Those who have intention to have more children are too tired to reproduce.
10) Couple are not as willing to let marriage & children affecting their careers
There are really a lot more that can be further continued but as to the main topic for today, it will be the point of marriage & reproduction as stated in the above.
Comparing With….
As we are such a competitive country that is able to rival Japan, Hong Kong, & Shanghai, many things are not easy here. Basically to say, our way of working style, mindset, environment, & culture regardless any place that you are working in is all the same, which is MULTI-Tasking! Multi-tasking has even reached to the point of extend that it has even rooted into our daily routine life hood as well too.
Such Kind of culture as far as concern as to my understanding so far, it is not at all practiced in places like Japan, Hong Kong & Shanghai. Their kind of working culture, mindset, environment & style is pretty different from ours.
Here in Singapore life is hectic! Everybody here is too busy working! Basically to say, you cannot afford not to work don’t even bother to talk about 1 year or 1 month, in fact it is one week or for some 1 day even!
It is all about working & earning money no anything else to that! We cannot afford not to work, if we don’t work we have no money & without money it is impossible to survive!
As a result of such, our people are more realistic & practical. Some even tend to be very materialistic & money minded especially for many of our Singapore girls.
Being this way when many of us are so career & money minded, how can marriage & reproduction come into the picture then?
Singapore man strongly prefers to marry foreign wife over local girls!
Talking about the first point which is: Singapore man strongly prefer to marry foreign wife over local girls!
Why would this then be so? Reasons are simple! Singaporean man finds that Singaporean girls are:
1) Too difficult to satisfy ( regardless whichever type of satisfaction you are thinking about)
2) Too materialistic ( particularly the 5C(s) Cash, Car, Credit Card, Career, & Condominium)
3) Not easily contented
4) Asking for too much (Want a lot but compromise & sacrifice too little or none even)
5) Simply turn/switch the local Man off about them.
6) Cannot satisfy him at bed ( lousy at bed or didn’t him enough sex)
7) Not family orientated enough
Too career minded, too strong, higher salary & position than the man ( lowers his pride & dents his ego)
9) They have too much say & power! Guys find themselves with too little.
10) Never give the man enough freedom, face & respect! ( Don’t feel treated like a man enough as well)
The Scope & Range of Wives we Marry
As a result of such, it has all along been the case that many Singaporean men marry foreign wives. In the past it first started off purely with just Malaysia & Indonesia. Then as time goes by the range & scope goes into Philippines & Thailand. However it did not stop just at this, the scope went further up north into Vietnam & then eventually followed by China & India. This scope & range in which our local men go out hunting for wives is just simply constant expanding & increasing. The demand for foreigners as wives here in Singapore is in actual fact in very high extreme demand!
Men here believe that these girls of foreign lands make a better wife than our locals! That is the perceptions, mindset & believes that most of the man here has. These men at the same time usually always go for younger & prettier girls as wives. (Do introduce/recommend your friends to marry Singaporean man or you; yourself can consider marrying Singaporean man as husband if you are a foreign girl reading this post [on the overall there is only gain to stand marrying a Singaporean Man])
Read Up
http://forums.keeptouch.net/showthread.php?t=76012&page=2
http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/printfriendly/0,4139,65721,00.html
http://www.littlespeck.com/content/lifestyle/CTrendsLifestyle-090404.htm
http://comment.straitstimes.com/showthread.php?t=14257&page=4
http://tomorrow.sg/archives/2009/03/28/vietnamese_mail_order_bride_sing.html
http://www.singapore-window.org/sw05/050402at.htm
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/archive/index.php/t-2195491.html
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=102198&page=4
http://starblog.stomp.com.sg/post.php?blogid=209&cid=2731
http://forums.ebay.com.sg/thread.jspa?threadID=600000349
http://my.ocworkbench.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=76766
http://sgblogs.com/blog/meepokman-blogspot/260
http://forums.keeptouch.net/showthread.php?t=76012&page=2
http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/200234
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/showthread.php?t=2287739
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/why_singapore_men_95857.html
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=70888&page=3
http://www.littlespeck.com/content/lifestyle/CTrendsLifestyle-021126.htm
http://www.overseassingaporean.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=1962
http://www.singaporeexpats.com/forum/sutra7041.html&sid=7a8f1be1aaae16d9144e55e21c36f6ae
http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/333560
Singapore woman highly prefer foreign man as husband over local man!
Next! Singapore woman highly prefer foreign man as husband over local man! Why is this so?
Usually Singaporean girls are very & most highly extremely attracted to white man. (Caucasians) In the usual case they will dream & desire for a white man as their husband! The efforts & duration needed/required to spend to acquire a Singaporean girl as a wife for the white man in the usual case is very minimal as compared to local Singaporean to get themselves a Singaporean girl as wife. Getting a Singaporean girl as a wife for the white man here in Singapore is simply too easy for them. (Easy until beyond descriptions)
There are still many things to be further elaborated in the above paragraph in fact but I shall skip it then.
Next if you are a Japanese or Korean Man, You are also in demand just like those white men. The only thing is that white men are in better demand that’s all. Perhaps the media, those dramas & movies as well as songs from & about Japan & Korean did make a contribution to this factor as well.
They Believe
Many Singaporean girls will be more than too proud if their boyfriend or husband is a foreigner especially in particular if they are one of those I had mentioned above of. They have a high tendency to brag & boast about you & will want to show off that that they have a boyfriend/Husband who is a foreigner.
To the impression & how most Singaporean girls perceived, they strongly believe that foreigners can give then more happiness, better satisfaction & a better life than compared to a local man. They also think that the treatment they will receive is also better than local man from a foreigner. Foreigners to them are much better than locals & can give them a lot of things that locals can never give them. Foreigners are also believed to be more devoted, romantic, & gentleman than a local as well to them. They are more manly, handsome, charming, gentle, polite, sexy, hot, & most importantly, they are much more richer than locals.
It is also believed that a foreigner can give them give better sex or a better sexual life than a local man as well. They tend to have greater fantasy of going to bed with a foreigner than with a local. Foreigners can give her better pleasures, excitements, thrills, satisfactions etc….
Many local man to the local Singaporean girls, are not man enough for them & too useless!
Read on below
http://www.mrbrown.com/blog/2004/03/the_angmohnisin.html
http://www.singapore-window.org/sw04/040318to.htm
http://www.streetdirectory.com/travel_guide/singapore/expat_guide/543/sarong_party_girl.php
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=52409&page=2
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/showthread.php?t=2195491
http://sgforums.com/forums/96/topics/133646
http://forums.vr-zone.com/world-news-singapore-affairs/272002-news-spore-men-often-blamed-wanting-marry-less-qualified-women.html
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/11/the-right-to-love-marry-and-procreate/comment-page-2/
http://www.mrbrown.com/blog/2005/02/today_life_is_g.html
http://justwoman.asiaone.com/Just+Woman/News/Women+In+The+News/Story/A1Story20081014-93587.html
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=2879
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/showthread.php?t=2261325&page=4
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=102198
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/141704
http://tomorrow.sg/archives/2008/11/16/spgs__bitches_people_got_ang_moh.html
http://comment.straitstimes.com/showthread.php?t=14332
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2008/07/going-swedish/
http://sgforums.com/forums/96/topics/357391?page=1
http://buddhism.sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/215830
Average age of marriage
The next point of elaboration will be on:
1) Most Singapore man get married somewhere around age of 28-30
2) Most Singapore Girls get married somewhere around age of 26-28
It is because of the fact of the cruelties of life; many of us Singaporean will want to choose focus on earning money & climbing up the corporate ladder. As a result of such, it is pretty impractical to marry at a young age. Hence most of us will choose to marry late when we are more stable.
As to the point about that most couples marry at late age & have children at much later age, it is actually interlinked with the above statement of the average age of marriage by most people. Some even get married at a much later age that the above average age. Marrying at late age also bring about not being able to have much children & in some cases none at all due to the physical body condition.
Also late marriages also meant that they may not have the means to support as much children as well.
About Average Age of Marriage
The below will be about average age of marriage
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/126985
http://www.geraldtan.com/singles/fact_summary.html
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/marriage_age_upped_109268.html
http://sgforums.com/forums/2788/topics/270711
http://www.singstat.gov.sg/pubn/papers/people/c2000adr-marriage.pdf
http://www.singstat.gov.sg/pubn/popn/c2000adr/chap8.pdf
http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/231938
http://72.14.235.132/search?q=cache:34MoNSe7pjwJ:fcd.ecitizen.gov.sg/NR/rdonlyres/9D71B486-A182-4040-ADAB-3AE408CEC8F6/0/Chpt2.pdf+average+marriage+age+of+singapore+guys&cd=9&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=sg
http://forums.vr-zone.com/world-news-singapore-affairs/268337-news-its-the-singapore-girl-not-singapore-granny.html
http://www.asiaone.com/News/The%2BStraits%2BTimes/Story/A1Story20080428-62134.html
http://forums.keeptouch.net/showthread.php?t=109687
Too Career Minded & don’t wanna marry
About this point of many girls are too career minded & don’t want to get married at all, one thing is that many of our girls are a little too smart or perhaps there might be some who are acting smart who knows? At the same time our girls are also a bit too independent! Equally like man, they do have dreams, aspirations, & ambitions as well. Being very well educated or in some cases better educated than our local man, these girls of our too become very career minded. Many of them wants to career woman, business woman, entrepreneurs & stuffs like all these.
As they become over career minded or more career minded than our man here, they are simply not interested in marriage. Perhaps the most is just dating only but no marriage! Another factor would be that in the gender ratio as in the most earlier statement of this post where I have stated that females are 7 & males are 3, there isn’t enough local man for them to marry also. Let’s don’t talk about local man are not their kind of cup of tea, even if they are, the local man population is not enough. Hence, they can only wait for foreign man to pick them up & take them away. If they can’t hook onto any foreign man as well, how to find a man to get married?
Some Read ups
http://flowerpod.com.sg/forums/Girls-Married-t72499.html
http://tomorrow.sg/archives/2007/09/11/when_all_your_girlfriends_are_ab.html
http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/288050?page=5
http://aaron-ng.info/blog/no-money-no-honey.html
http://felixker.com/love/how-to-tell-if-a-girl-is-not-interested-in-you/
http://forum.channelnewsasia.com/viewtopic.php?p=2737634&sid=3e0443d1b43b2e53913830cf0b6dc394
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/222674
http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/260777
http://www.singapore-window.org/sw04/041205st.htm
http://marketing-interactive.com/news/1386
http://www.talkingcock.com/html/article.php?sid=2583
http://archive5.mediacorptv.sg/wassup/interviews/view/338/1/.html
http://www.singaporeexpats.com/forum/sutra3513.html&sid=6bb0fe8c908c948393ca4b653e8ffc1d
Children, Marriage & Career
Finally, as to below following point,
1) Most people would stop at their 1st child & don’t want to reproduce anymore
2) Some even don’t want to have children after marriage
3) Those who have intention to have more children are too tired to reproduce.
4) Couple are not as willing to let marriage & children affecting their careers
Children
To have children, to support them & to bring them up is seen by many people as an expenditure! Some even say that Children is an investment but with no returns. If even you are not one of those who view things this way, to bring up a child here in Singapore is but an actual fact very expensive!
The amount of money, time, energy & effort spend on them is indeed definitely a lot! They cannot afford to have so many children. They are not able to support than many or to bring up that much. How are they going to strike a balance between children & work? Furthermore taking care of children is not easy. That is also one of the many reasons why many couple would get maids, nanny or their parents to help look after the children.
Marriage & Career
Here in Singapore just one person alone working is not enough, furthermore in our society, there is no such thing as retirement! We all work to the very last day of our lives in this world! We work till the day we die. One the day we died, that is indeed actual retirement! Everybody in the family needs to work to survive.
Some of them aim to achieve a lot in their careers & children to them are something that stands in their way.
Even for those who have intention to reproduce more, their daily routine lives simply wears them down & they are just too tired to do some reproduction. No Time, No Energy & No Mood! Even if they have, it will be money not enough to have more children.
Others just simply either that they don’t like children or that they just want to be alone as a couple with a lot of their private moments & time. Having children would mean an end to their world of their own! Having children will have a change in their lives. There will be less privacy & many more & they just don’t want that to happen.
All of these above 6 paragraphs are a brief & quick summary to the 4 stated points.
Read Ups
Do read up on the following
http://singaporelifetimes.blogspot.com/2007/02/procreating-singaporeans.html
http://sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/262782
http://www.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/Motherhood/Stories/Story/A1Story20080901-85321.html
http://comment.straitstimes.com/showthread.php?t=13742
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/before_marriage_love_5795.html
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/bgr_after_marriage_115720.html
http://sgforums.com/forums/12/topics/294249
http://sgforums.com/forums/1769/topics/323424?page=6
http://comment.straitstimes.com/showthread.php?t=14122
http://sgblogs.com/entry/baby-policy-when-money-really-problem/232489
http://www.streetdirectory.com/travel_guide/201294/motherhood/sex_and_the_new_mom__how_to_get_in_the_mood_when_youre_not.html
http://www.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/About%2BMe/Well%2BBeing/Story/A1Story20080124-46509.html
http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Singapore/Story/A1Story20080513-64849.html
http://health.asiaone.com/Health/Women%2527s%2BMatters/Sexual%2BHealth/Story/A1Story20070925-26966.html
http://www.yawningbread.org/arch_2008/yax-926.htm
Baby Bonus
Our Government did try to do many things to improve the situation. They do a lot of advertising over the media to encourage marriage & reproduction. They Government also offer a policy of baby bonus! To simplify what this baby bonus policy is about, it is simply means that we get paid by the government to have sex with our husband/wife to have children. For every each & every child we reproduced we get paid by the government handsomely so called. The policy aims to let the couple to do a lot of love making & reproduce.
However despite this so called “Handsome” reward we get, to many, it is still not enough. Anyways, the Government of ours aims & target with hopes that per couple under this baby bonuses will each have 4 children.
Bonus Reading
The below will be about baby bonuses for your read ups
http://www.babybonus.gov.sg/bbss/html/index.html
http://www.ocbc.com/personal-banking/mightysavers/babybonus/solution/smartparent.html
http://app.mcys.gov.sg/web/corp_press_story.asp?szMod=corp&szSubMod=press&qid=839
http://mediacorptv.sg/English/forums/3/239280/ShowThread.aspx
http://www.salary.sg/2007/baby-bonus-parenthood-tax-rebate/
http://www.singaporeexpats.com/forum/sutra372956.html&sid=a8342c1d1e8362b7f538d5bb73049055
http://was.nl.sg/details/www.babybonus.gov.sg.html
http://blog.omy.sg/ahfon/archives/160
http://ysteoclinic.com/?p=10
http://forums.vr-zone.com/world-news-singapore-affairs/327751-news-baby-bonus-stops-4-a.html
http://www.overseassingaporean.sg/forums/index.php?showtopic=255
http://www.family.sg/CS/forums/t/279.aspx
Wedding
There are also a lot of wedding exhibitions that is held to encourage & promote wedding & marriages.
Browse Along
You can browse at the following with regards to Wedding exhibitions & promotions in Singapore
http://sg.88db.com/sg/Services/Post_Detail.page/Events_Activities/Wedding_Events/?PostID=674488
http://www.singaporebrides.com/
http://www.sgwedex.com/
http://eventful.com/singapore/events/sgwedex-singapore-wedding-exhibition-and-ladies-/E0-001-018214721-5
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/1/891807.html?1237428585
http://yourstrulyweddings.blogspot.com/2008/04/amara-singapore-wedding-fair.html
http://upcoming.yahoo.com/event/1459779/
http://www.free-press-release.com/news/200902/1234949224.html
http://www.ido.com.sg/
http://www.singaporeweddingservices.com/Forum/default.asp
http://www.premaweddingservices.com/?gclid=CO2n5cb-v5oCFQUwpAodJkIisQ
http://www.certifiedweddingplanners.org/?gclid=CO6bnND-v5oCFZcwpAodMXjKqw
http://www.extraordinary.com.sg/promotions.asp?subcat_id=6&cat_id=5
http://www.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/Motherhood/Stories/Story/A1Story20080820-83319.html
http://geraldgiam.sg/2008/09/don%E2%80%99t-be-a-stupid-cupid/
http://72.14.235.132/search?q=cache:NH-gU-U2Z_cJ:www.bca.gov.sg/BarrierFree/others/MCDS.pdf+government+encouraging+marriage&cd=2&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=sg
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/5/745551.html?1219653816
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/archive/index.php/t-48215.html
SDU-SDS
However all of these are still not yet enough to solve the problems here. Hence, now our beloved government is even nicer to us all. They sure are so nice to us & take very good care of us until to the extent of interfering into our private lives. They created this SDU-SDS!
This department of the government aims to help/assist us all to fall in love & to get married! For Singaporeans who are single & below the age of 40, we are already members! It is an auto-sign up.
The only way in which a person can get out of this group which they have been automatically sign up into is only when they get married or they past the age of 40.
This Group
To understand more about this group, do refer to the below links
http://www.lovebyte.org.sg/web/ent_p_home.asp
http://www.mcys.gov.sg/web/faces/Faces34/singlespore.htm
http://www.romancingsingapore.com/venue_view.php?venue_id=46
http://www.singaporemirror.com/ind_love.htm
http://www.lovebyte.org.sg/web/wha_mog_detail.asp?MemFlg=P&code=56977
http://www.lovebyte.org.sg/web/wha_m_detail.asp?MemFlg=P&code=55164
http://www.lovebyte.org.sg/web/wha_p_main_right.asp
Blogs & Forums
Next, you can read on the below other links, Blogs & forums with regards to this government organisation.
http://madewithlove.com.sg/SDU.htm
http://www.egen.sg/blog.php?uid=563&entry=73928
http://www.yanswersblogsg.com/b4/?p=67
http://pubed.blogspot.com/2009/01/sdu-and-sds-get-hitched.html
http://ping.sg/item/SDU_Trust_Mark_for_Dating_Agencies
http://flowerpod.com.sg/forums/Joined-Matchmaking-Agency-t20014.html&st=40
http://www.singaporeforums.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-3145.html
http://www.singaporebikes.com/forums/showthread.php?t=114848
http://www.singaporeforums.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-3308.html
http://www.singaporebikes.com/forums/showthread.php?t=114848
http://psycho.loversoul.com/2004/08/
Hopefully
Well hopefully policies will improve the conditions here in terms of marriages & birth rates. The percentage of Singaporeans locally inside of Singapore has to be no matter what more than the foreigners here.
Anyways at least for the time being Singapore will not face the problem of overpopulation yet! Perhaps years later in the future when the current policies are over successful it might happen then.
Another factor will be living condition here whereby people can afford to have more time to have sex & reproduce. With the current standard of living & conditions here, this will be something pretty much impossible! Until the day our lives is a bit more relaxed & affordable can we then have more time & energy as well as mood to have sex & reproduce.
Talents
Also, our current government policies over concentrates on foreign talents instead of local talents! Too much of our local talents are gone to waste or buried. Till the day this situation changes will the situation of marriage & birth rate change as well.
More Singaporeans
The rate of employment also has the change with lesser foreigners in Singapore & more Singaporeans in the local work force. At the same time, the government should also do more efforts into helping locals to become expatriates in overseas. A pool of market & demand for Singaporeans in the overseas should be created whereby our policy will be targeting into Singaporeans going to overseas to work.
Also, even more should be done to help Singaporeans set up their own business not in Singapore locally but instead in overseas. The future for Singaporeans & the only future for future Singaporeans are no longer inside their own land but instead in the soils of overseas land! This is something I strongly believe in. There will not be of any future to speak of in the years to come for Singaporeans inside of Singapore locally.
Singapore is for basic & Foundation & the rest must be in overseas
Singapore is a good place to built up & establish foundations as well as to gain good education, life exposures, working experiences & social networking. It is only the basics. Anything else further/higher/greater to that, it has only to be overseas to reach to the next level.
Singapore is defiantly the worst place in this whole world in terms of retirement & to enjoy life!
To Encourage or Discourage?
Actually myself I also don’t know should I encourage or discourage that the foreigners just take away our girls? It is pretty confusing, actually. In certain aspects if more Singaporean girls are being taken away by the foreigners it can be good in certain ways.
One thing the girl herself perfects her language skills, becomes a PR of the country of the man she marries to, have a better life there & give us local man here lesser troubles/problems only up to certain sense.
However, seeing others taking away our girls out of our own country also does not reflect well on us local man in certain as well. Is it that we are too lousy & incapable to marry our own local girls or it that our girls are simply such a reject & of little value & worth that we don’t want them at all?
Regarding Singaporean girls all out for foreign man over locals & Singaporean man all out for foreign girls over locals is defiantly right now a trend & it is simply too common now! Is this something good or bad? This is indeed very debatable & subjective.
Yes! To Polygamy
If the number of females in Singapore regardless locals or foreigners continues to increase & it is becoming very imbalance between the number of females & males, to strike a balance & to increase the percentage of girls able to have 1 man each, Polygamy have to be implemented & very strongly encouraged.
One of the factors but not completely to adultery, mistresses etc…. is as a result of when polygamy is not being practiced when the ratio of females is too many over the males.
Do refer to the below if you need to
http://saikitshijie.blog.friendster.com/2009/04/1-guy-with-many-wives/
I support marrying of foreign wives
Myself personally, I am uncertain whether or not to encourage foreigners marry away our local girls. But however, I very strongly encourage the marrying of foreign wives by our local man.
I view it as a good way to contribute to our multi-racial multi-whatsoever bla bla etc… society of Singapore in certain ways. I should believe that the goodness will be more than bad!
It is a good way of cultural exchange for us Singaporean man & us all making this place truly uniquely Singapore!
In terms of our breed it will make us more mixed which is something good for Singapore actually. We are actually making a very Singaporean race. Furthermore, mix children are better looking & tend to be better than those who are not mixed in certain ways.
We can get to learn a lot from other nations & reducing on the policy of foreign talents in the future.
It is also a good way to re-reform & change many things in our Singapore society with the marrying of foreign wives.
Perhaps you might even be able to list out more & this section will be very long.
Anyways generally to say, foreigners make a better wife than our local girls. In fact I, myself also do have intentions to marry a foreign wife.
Are Singaporeans Contributing enough?
Off the topic a little bit on other issue. The topic here of Singaporeans not contributing enough in terms of marriage & reproduction is the main topic I am talking about here, but side track a little let us look at other matters then.
During the very early days, yes indeed our forefathers & ancestors contributed a lot! However coming to today, are we still contributing & if we still indeed are, are we then contributing enough?
I should believe from my own person point of view, that to our “beloved government the way they see us, we Singaporeans are definitely not contributing enough!
How about yourself? Any views or opinions?
Look
Perhaps let us look at the below & form some impressions
http://singaporemind.blogspot.com/2009/01/singaporeans-work-as-long-as-you-can.html
http://politics.sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/246846?page=1
http://www.youngpap.org.sg/index.php?searchword=singaporean&searchphrase=all&option=com_search
http://sgblogs.com/blog/comments-james-seng-blog/195
http://mollymeek.livejournal.com/215240.html
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2009/01/budget-2009-good-or-bad/
http://comment.straitstimes.com/showthread.php?t=13401&page=3
http://sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/357147?page=1
http://business.asiaone.com/print/Business/My%2BMoney/Starting%2BOut/Investments%2BAnd%2BSavings/Story/A1Story20070519-2901.html
http://72.14.235.132/search?q=cache:cCcz0sIY1s8J:www.singapore21.org.sg/chapter1.pdf+singaporeans+not+contributing+enough+to+society&cd=6&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=sg
http://wayangparty.com/?m=20080220
http://www.youngntuc.com.sg/youngntuc/viewtopic.php?f=152&t=1003
http://www.mrbiao.com/blog/what-benefits-do-singapore-citizens-enjoy.html
http://72.14.235.132/search?q=cache:dfqBrSiASSQJ:www.nps.gov.sg/files/news/English/Singapore%2520government%2520outlines%2520plans%2520to%2520tackle%2520population%2520problem.pdf+are+singaporeans+contributing+enough+to+our+country&cd=9&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=sg
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2009/01/life-in-singapore/
We Want to Contribute But…..
It is true that there is a decline to nationalism & loyalty to country of Singaporeans to Singapore. I am very sure of many things that our locals would like to do but ! But ! But ! it is all about the But(s) !
Moving on back to the main topic again, it is said that there are more locals who know wants to get married & have more children. Frankly speaking, very seriously I am very doubtful of this survey results.
But anyways perhaps you want to read about it.
http://sgforums.com/forums/1710/topics/316595
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/345668/1/.html
http://sg.theasianparent.com/articles3.php?reg_id=135&cat_id=13
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/when_get_married_11730.html
http://www.clubsnap.com/forums/showthread.php?t=247554
http://forums.keeptouch.net/showthread.php?t=106495
http://www.p65.sg/2009/03/23/marriage-kids/
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/archive/index.php/t-2032881.html
http://www.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/Motherhood/Stories/Story/A1Story20080716-76920.html
http://www.singapore21.org.sg/speeches_110600.html
http://singaporewomen.net/singaporean-wife.htm
http://singaporewomen.net/page2.htm
http://singaporewomen.net/page3.htm
http://singaporewomen.net/singaporean-courtship-customs.htm
http://www.littlespeck.com/content/people/CTrendsPeople-040418.htm
http://www.divaasia.com/article/2112
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/marry_me_china_76175.html
http://sgforums.com/forums/8/topics/181823
Marrying Sg Man/Girl
http://singapore.gumtree.sg/c-Community-other-Looking-to-marry-Australian-Man-W0QQAdIdZ126362259
http://www.streetdirectory.com/classifieds/singapore/dating_and_friendship/dating_services/wanna_marry_a_rich_man_or_a_beautiful_woman/
http://sgforums.com/forums/10/topics/126985?page=5
http://forum.channelnewsasia.com/viewtopic.php?p=2722935&sid=fbd1ee1ccf4408bbf3ded3cb87358126
http://forums.vr-zone.com/world-news-singapore-affairs/217467-news-42yr-old-prc-woman-looking-white-man-marry-singapore-2.html
http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/messages/539/774083.html?1223339433
http://www.singapore-window.org/sw05/050213st.htm
http://forums.vr-zone.com/chit-chatting/24863-singapore-girls-challenge-love.html
http://www.sgclub.com/singapore/shes_nice_girl_58710.html
http://www.mrbrown.com/blog/2004/11/how_to_marry_a_.html